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Educate so that children do not lie

Educate so that children do not lie



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Older children use lies in a more elaborate way than younger children and, surely, more than once they manage to deceive us by telling us that they have done their homework so that they can go out to play or watch television.

Thanks to the lie they obtain a benefit that being honest they would not get. The idea is to make them understand, as soon as possible, that going with the truth ahead is always advantageous, since sooner or later the lie has consequences against himself.

They may fool us once or twice, but no more, because eventually they will fall victim to our continuous suspicion. Perhaps rewarding their recognition of reality will help them not to resort to lying in the future. Already at school age, it seems essential to promote honesty and tell the truth Although it costs us, because many times others pay the price of our lies and, in the long run, it ends up having an impact on us and affecting us more than if we had told the truth.

Children often lie because of social pressure, to stand out from their peers, or to avoid an uncomfortable situation or punishment, so we must let them know why they should not do so. They must be made to understand that the easy thing is not always the solution, if the child recognizes his mischief and asks for forgiveness, there is no judge who does not have mercy, due to the nobility and humility that this decision implies.

I always tell them the well-known and useful story of Peter and the Wolf, who lied so many times to play a joke on the other shepherds, that he ended up getting nobody to believe him at the decisive moment when he needed the help of others. Now my oldest son tells the little ones so they don't lie and tells them 'we all make mistakes sometime and we have to tell the truth' because once we create a bad reputation, it doesn't matter what we do to avoid it. Known to all is the story of Pinocchio, whose nose grows more and more when he tells a new lie.

It is very useful to teach children the consequences of a lie, since one lie calls out to another until it becomes a gigantic ball, difficult to untangle. Let us also try not to use lies, because lying in children is sometimes a behavior learned from adults who use it mainly to hide something normally, such as saying that you have been late because your car has broken down. When your child really knows that you are late. Do not look for him to be an accessory to a false alibi or to your little lies, no matter how innocent they may be.

Patro Gabaldon. Editor of our site

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